When you are 16 or 20, socialise on romantic movies and hang out with a bunch of people at the same age, you are desperate to have a relationship. After this phase passes, and also after having many boyfriends or girlfriends, you become carefree. Above 30, you focus on yourself and your own needs and expectations and in this state of mind, dating becomes so much easier.
1. I <3 me
You passed the phase where you’ve searched your path. You know your positive and negative characteristics as well, you are aware of your strength and flaws and you are not afraid to be true to yourself. You won’t settle for anybody just for the sake of being in a relationship.